Being a Muslim is a difficult thing in this country, this society, and in this particular age.
I was struck with this concept by my own personal life’s current issues around the reality of my socialization as a non-believer in Islam by virtue of everything else around me.
As a male there come certain privileges and responsibilities as well as a considerable amount of hipocrasy in terms of how the religion I have chosen has been practiced. Double standards, that are heavily intellectual and out of scope and touch with the real heart of the matter:
The soul.
We think about a lot of things us 20 and soon to be 30’somethings… we think about buying property, how our careers are progressing, about our manner of etiquette in particular situations, about skills we need to acquire in order to more ourselves to the next level… yet rarely do we investigate and question where our inner being comes from.
Our spiritual crisis of being is quelled under drinks and socializing, in the guise of work and corralled by our sense of duty and responsibility to family and culture. Our Soul is forgotten. In our highly structured intellectual existence there is nothing that makes sense unless it can be quantified, explained, deciphered, and made sense out of with pure evidence laid out in front of us for all to see.
I was struck, in part by a little clip I read regarding the Hijab:
Why fear the hijab?
"The fact that anyone might insist on publicly honoring customs or beliefs different from those held by the majority makes the latter uncomfortable, fearful, and so divides communities.
Heterogeneity must be suppressed in an 'open' society. Everyone ought to dress, speak, believe and behave similarly." (Can you spell "fascism"?) The irony, of course, is that targeting people who are different — in France, in Britain or Fremont — may cause those individuals, because of their fear, to withdraw into their own communities, thus engendering the divided society the official decried. It may also make radical groups even more militant.
Muslim women feel unsafe, said Moina Shaiq, vice chair of Fremont's Human Relations Commission. "I wear a hijab, and now I'm scared, especially after this incident."
Oh, what a loss if Muslim girls, for example, either flee from public schools to private ones where they feel safe, or if they stay but remove their hijabs in order to blend in. Frankly, I know a lot of my former students, especially those who came to school dressed as scandalously as they dared, would benefit sharing a classroom or lunch table with pious, modest, courageous Muslim girls wearing hijabs.
It’s this last line that had me thinking. We acknowledge all manner of role models in our society, particularly folks who are concerned about their soul and their place with the Creator, and the meaning of all THIS. Christians harp about it on mainstream media about the damning influence of secular values that threaten the integrity of their own… and as a Muslim rose in this country I am a living example of that dichotomy.
I guess I am ranting a bit because I am bored with the over-intellectual reasoning for NOT being more connected to what grounds you. Forget about your own particular path… each spiritual path has the ability to ground you in who you are and what your purpose is. The reality is that everything else that we put our faith and trust into – literally everything! Is irrelevant and will not provide that same kind of grounding and firmness of knowing.
Science, love, money, all these visceral things are momentary, illusionary, and designed to distract us from what is most important. To me, what is most important is my soul, and the knowing that comes from getting my soul connected BACK from whence it came.
You can call that Nirvana, or just Divine Unification… but it is the single most important goal in my life… not money, not lust (however driven we are all by it), not fame (however intoxicating it seemingly is) …no, I think I am writing this little thing here today to ask all in my cohort, my little post-boomer-post-X generation that it is time for us to WAKE UP FOR REAL:
HAVE YOU THOUGHT ABOUT YOUR soul TODAY?
